Kinky folks, those in the Lifestyle or on Fet?

I have been in and out of the Lifestyle but have been worried about going to parties. Of the parties I have seen they have asked for HSV+ people to not come. Words like “clean only” are thrown around.

HSV2+has felt like a career ending injury.

I’m a consenting pervert. I LOVE SEX. Group sessions are wonderful. Going to events and meeting someone to play with is amazing. I’ve been feeling like a shell of myself since the diagnosis. I’ve had 3 outbreaks in 8 years and take antivirals whenever I have felt even a tingle (Kaiser Permanente won’t pay for daily antivirals.).

Does anyone here have experience in this arena?