Anyone else with HL but body insecurities?

First of all, I am so happy to have found this sub. It sucks feeling like you're not supposed to be dealing with having a HL as a woman. Thank you all ❤

I am in my 30's and single. I am shy and also overly self conscious about my body, so I never pursue hookups... But it drives me crazy to not have any... activity. Anyone else struggle with this and I would love to hear about it if anyone has successfully moved past their insecurities.