To the ones who preach unity

Why do you expect us (ones who are/will be affected by the current administration) to suck it up and try to educate and unionize with people who obviously don't want that. Why do you expect us to be the bigger people? The ones who voted for Trump basically gave us the middle finger because they'd know what we were getting into? So please, why should we give them the time of day? And don't give me "this is why democrats lost" that's not an answer. EDIT: I asked for a reason, not insults or evaluations of my behavior. If you're doing that here, just know it's tired. Edit: thank you for your contributions! EDIT 2: I'm drawing a conclusion that people voted for Trump because they didn't like the agenda the democrats were pushing. Such as DEI or demonizing people who don't support them. Maybe they're not all racist or sexist but they didn't want to side with them for the reasons said above. ALSO: IF I YOU SAY SOMETHING WEIRD, I PROBABLY WONT RESPOND