Is there anyway to be a “slut” without benefiting men?

Basically the title! Love the word “slut” & using it very positively here.

As a woman, I’ve tried regaining control of my own sexuality. However - i feel now as if there is no way to do this that does not benefit men.

Casual sexual relationships benefit men; dressing more “slutty” appeals to the male gaze.

I’m sure there’s more to this question I’m trying to ask - but is there a way to take control of this myself (as a bi woman) that does not benefit men?