Leaving the South

Alright y'all, I'm turning 30 and I need to get out of the South for my health. I'm born and raised in Dolly Parton's hometown and I simply can't do it anymore. I love the mountains and most of the people, but I no longer feel safe here as I'm decently early on in my transition.

My spouse and I are looking heavily at Minnesota and Michigan, but the idea of moving that far makes my head spin. I'm privileged to be able to work remotely from anywhere, so employment is covered. It's just...where do we go?

Any tips or tricks on moving a long distance with cats and dogs? Any specific blue city you vouch for? Or simply words of encouragement? I keep getting emotional at the idea of leaving the place I've always called home, but I've read so many lovely posts from people who've gotten out and are living their authentic, joyful lives in blue states that I know it's time for me to go.

Thanks friends ♥️