Okay, is this really possible or not?

Okay, enough is enough of this shit, I need to know from someone who truly knows, not anyone who has hunches, or opinions, but from people who have either actually had a NDE or who has astral projected or lucid dreamed to the outside of this realm or someone who really knows. To those people, I have one question, is, is it actually possible to escape the reincarnation trap after death? Do you know?

Because I'm honestly, seriously, seriously, seriously now tired of living down here on this planet called Earth or the matrix or whatever the hell this realm is. Ever since being down here, I have been suffering endlessly and the only hope I do have is that after death, I can reject reincarnating back down here and go to some free universal realm where whatever we think can manifest into reality, i.e. - my own realm/realm/world, etc. So, my question is is it actually possible to escape the reincarnation light trap after death? Or are we all just fucked and doomed to get trapped into the reincarnation system again after death?

I have literally asked all the ones who talk on this topic this same question and it seems no one can give me an answer, not Robert Stanley, not Wayne Bush, no one, so perhaps someone on here knows because I seriously want out of this realm. I am not interested in anything material down here anymore, I'm not interested in seeing anything down here, not any new movies or tv shows or tourist attractions ---nothing, nada, zilch. I could play the powerball today and win nine billion dollars and I wouldn't want it, I want out, ASAP.

All my family members and friends have passed on already so there's no one down here for me and this world is getting worse and worse, and so.....is it really, truly possible to actually escape the reincarnation light trap after death and go to some sort of free universe somewhere?