I feel abandoned by men, what has caused so much anger?

For context, I’m a victim of rape and multiple other assaults. As a method of healing, I’m attempting to advocate and educate on preventative measure and calling for communal help to keep each other safe.

Taking this on has placed me as a target for rape threats, anger and frustration, both online and in person.

I’m sorry that so many men feel so shunned. I feel like I’ve become a constant outlet for men who feel abandoned to release their frustration on. I try to meditate these situations and handle them with kindness and empathy but it hurts.

I hear your anger, I want to help. The common sentiment I get when asking for advocacy is ‘Why should I care about your issues, you don’t care about mine’.

My answer is that at least, I, the individual, do care. I’m upset, I’m very sad that men feel so guarded and individualistic. That empathy is a luxury, you feel you can’t afford.

My intention is to open up healthy dialogue about your perspective, fears and hesitation to aiding me. Please express what’s caused your discomfort.

I’ll try to answer with insights in responses too if you have any questions about my experiences and perspectives.