why? (christain dating advice)

Question to anyone, just anyone. For context, me and my partner have been dating for almost 2 years now, and recently we have been getting back with the lord because we slipped up. He goes to church, prays, and s still realtively learfning as a baby christain. I am reading my word and praying alot, for myself, and for him… (he doesnt read his bible or understand much about spiritual things or what a Godly man is so thats why i pray for him alot). I try to understand that I as a woman can onlyh encourage, nuture, and pray for him, and thats all I can do is trust God for the rest. I usually worry alot whether he is a man of God or a counterfeit, and it gives me alot of anxiety, etc etc. But im here to ask why is it when i think of reading the bible with him (this specifically, not praying together, or going to church together), do i feel really weird about it? Like why dont i see that happening between us? Is it because my flesh is warring against the spirit? Uncomfortableness because we have hardly ever done that before? Unequally yoked???Or???? I just wanted to see what you all thought. This is the closest to Christain community that I have so im sorry if this is alot!!!! Any encouragement might help!! God bless

(side note yes we are both born again and saved if that helps— both waiting for marriage and have the same values on everything)))