Lazy Cadets

I’ve been in army cadets for about 3 years now, I try pretty hard to be successful in the program especially with my uniform and deportment. I’ve been top of my star level every year. However I find there are a lot of cadets who just don’t care. Not just first years but 2nd and 3rd years too. On the average COs parade night there are so many wrinkled pants and dull parade boots it’s almost sad. And people don’t salute officers and answer with sir or m’am. People are inattentive in class and rude to senior cadets and officers. I’m just wondering if it’s my corps or if this is just normal and I have too high of expectations.