Hate when people complain about small stuff

I can not STANDDD when ppl go on and on complaining about little things. I am the first to say it doesn’t matter what ur pain is. Pain is pain n that’s real. But life has turned me so bitter n when u complain about stupid shit or u want problems in ur life I can’t stand it. People without PTSD or CPTSD have no idea how much it effects every tiny little minuscule thing in our lives n behaviors n thoughts n actions n everything. Don’t complain to me about how ur kitchen is too small meanwhile ur dad is a brain surgeon n ur kitchen is bigger than my entire appt for one example. All that came to my mind but hopefully u know what I mean. Ppl don’t know just how bad life can be. N I don’t want them to experience it but I also don’t want ppl to want problems in their life if that makes sense or think they understand how bad ppl have it when they never went through it bc they will never know. N that’s unfortunately human nature to want problems when u have none. Ugh idk just so many ppl complaining about things when there’s bigger issues or ppl going thru sht they can’t even comprehend.