where are all the durable brands 😭

i’m really into thrifting (someone needs to come uninstall depop from my phone!) and am finding there are SO many posts that are like “worn a few times” but the clothes are damaged, hemming is coming apart or they look like they’ve been through the nine circles of hell 💀

is this just where the quality of fashion is? what are some tried and true brands that can survive being washed, worn, danced in, etc?