Are my exceptions to high about hygiene?

I’m getting really frustrated with dating and also with my self. Maybe my standards are too unusual. I have the feeling the older I get the more I’m not able to accept stuff like that. So I would like to find someone who washes his hands, cucumber, beard regularly. I can smell the food in your beard from yesterday night when we cuddling. Or I can smell when you didn’t wash your hands and touching my face. I can smell the juice when we are intimate and you didn’t give your wiener a quick wash before. Nobody is perfect and things can happen it’s not about that but that there is a general intention to be clean would be good. I’m at the point that maybe there is no person who fit this standards for me. I’m not saying that this or that is wrong it’s just something what would be important for me.