Apple Watch Family Share - Contacts "Pending"

Apple Watch Family Share - Trying to control my child's contacts, but the "request" is always "pending" -- I can try to switch "Manage {child's name}'s Contacts" ON or OFF... and when I switch it ON I can see that "Contacts" are "Pending". I have already tried to restart both my iPhone and the referred new Apple watch SE. Does anyone had the same issue and found the solution? FYI I bought 2 apple watch SE for my kids one I can manage the contacts and the other I don't...

Plus another issue as they don't have an iPhone themselves I created an photo album on mine to share with their watches but I can't access the pictures either or set as a photo album face for instance l. Even though it's already sheared to them on the Apple watch app. Should I return to AT&T and pay a restocking fee? Or wait for Apple high level support? Thanks 👍🏼