AITAH for not having the same hobbies as my partner?
TLDR, my partner is upset that we don’t share the same hobbies anymore and that I don’t like the same video games he likes.
AITAH? I am 32F and my partner is 30M. He spends his free time playing a variety of video games and watching shows/anime. He doesn’t have other hobbies outside of this. That’s not an issue to me, just painting the picture.
I have a lot of different hobbies and used to be more of a “gamer” when we met. I have since stopped playing most games other than a few that I honestly get made fun of for playing because “they aren’t real games”. I play a game called Sky to relax and have really been into the remastered Tomb Raider collection on PS5. Other than that I like to figure skate to exercise and be healthy. I love to travel! I’d love to move somewhere I can comfortably hike and explore new places. I guess I just have a general curiosity for life and spontaneity and don’t like to be cooped up inside very much.
Everytime my partner and I get into an argument, the fact that I don’t play any of the games he likes gets brought up. He gets mad I won’t play Minecraft and stardew valley mainly with him. I have tried to play both games with him multiple times, but they just aren’t fun to me. He then gets mad that we don’t share any of the same hobbies. I get this to an extent, but it’s hard when the only hobbies he has is watching tv or playing video games. I feel like we are growing apart and I am being blamed for this.