Is it spousal r*pe?

me (19F) and my soon to be ex husband (M20) were sexual in the beginning. I had consented to him touching me in my sleep one night. Fast forward we had slowed down almost entirely because of some issues in the relationship. I woke up to him one night inside me after expressing multiple times i did not want to have sx. instead of telling him to get off when i woke up i just froze, (this is not the first time this has happened to me) i had just got over a four year issue with the same nightmare every night of my ex doing the same thing, and he was very aware of that, as he was the one who would hold me and wake me up when i was twitching and talking in my sleep. he thought it was okay bc we started kissing again and that i had given him consent in the past. i explained how thats not the case and to please not do it again. it happened three more times, just without the insertion of his dck. he uses the same excuses, “we were doing so much better i thought you would like it”, “i didnt know you were asleep”, “your hand was on your underwear and you didnt move it”, “you had given me consent before” “i stopped as soon as youd move” etc. i know this is assault because i had multiple conversations about this with him and it continued. i was asleep during all of them. the last time it happened i finally left, i had taken sleep medication and took more than i needed and physically could not wake up. i was able to open my eyes long enough to tell him, “i cant wake up i took too much” before passing out again. when i woke back up i was in sleep paralysis while he was touching me. it was torture. i just want to know how everyone else would see this as.

edit: i just want to say that i definitely have moved out and a couple states away, but i found out hes moving to my state in august. i have a daughter and very low funds because of the move so i cant up and leave again