AITA for not spamming through her content?

I (21M) matches with a small streamer (mid 20s) on a dating app like 2-3 weeks ago and we've hit off a great conversation. 3 days ago we had this discussion:

Me: "Btw, I've kinda avoided watching your content much so far cuz I want to get to know you more naturally in conversation, just watching through lots of videos/vods feels parasocial"

Her: "i too avoid sharing content too much to not make ppl feel this way BUT when i get asked something i have a clip of answering"

And she elaborated about being annoyed by being asked the same thing by 100 people, thus sending a video. I assumed that was all there was to it, up until yesterday when she asked me if I'd seen her 2024 compilation, and I said "I haven't yet (basically for now I only watch stuff you link that are relevant to our convo xd)" and she said "and u should watch my 2024 compilation ", which I heart reacted and said I will

I continued our conversation topics and was being goofy/flirty, to which she replied

"BUT BUT u dont even watch my shir last guy i thought was the one refused to watch my content and i sent him to the trash can 🤣🤣🤣 THAT IS MY DEALBREAKER. ok not the trash can but perma friendzone"

And it started a discussion that turned into a heated argument the more it continued, I was calmly saying (summarized across multiple messages) "Basically if I just spam all your videos and get to know you this way, how will we actually connect and what will we talk about? That's why for now I wanna be told what to watch. I mean that instead of you telling me something in conversation, I understand it from a video (before it has even become a topic), it becomes pointless to ask you that thing in conversation since I already know it. So I'd get to know you this way without directly interacting with you in the process, thus making connecting harder and more one-sided. That's my general thinking. There's gotta be a balance" and added that the closer we get, the more invested (and involved) I'd be (and also that I thought that spamming through her videos would come off as too obsessive to someone I've been communicating with for 2-3 weeks)

It eventually reached her basically yelling over text:

"YES I FUKING HATE BEING ASKED SHIT I HAVE VIDEOS ABOUT OK ITS LITERALLY ANNOYING TO ME THAT SOMEONE THINKS I DONT HAVE A TON OF SHIT TO BE ASKED EVEN IF THEY WATCH 100S OF MY STREAMS YA FEEL ME" and "ITS LITERALLY ANNOYING TO ME THAT SOMEONE THINKS I DONT HAVE A TON OF SHIT TO BE ASKED EVEN IF THEY WATCH 100S OF MY STREAMS YA FEEL ME. it makes me fuking mad like why do i have these hours of content if everyone wants 100s of hours for themselves from me. like from my point of view its literally "who tf do u think u are"

She later apologized and said someone else had pissed her off, however I'm still conflicted and have become more reserved - that doesn't sound like healthy communication on her end, right? And respectively should I continue or am I in for too much bipolar-esque drama (she's self-diagnosed ADHD, however she'd also checked (and crossed out) bipolar disorder prior to that)? Or AITA?