The Other Way: Deavan and Drascilla

I just started watching "The Other Way", and I cannot believe what I am seeing. I have seen some shitty parenting in my life, but HOLY SHIT Drascilla is OUT OF CONTROL. Like, lady.... how about NOT LETTING your 3 year old sit on the counter while people are making breakfast, and NOT letting her put the chopsticks (things people will be using to EAT) IN HER MOUTH and BETWEEN HER TOES??? And she was grabbing the scrambled eggs with her hands and shoving them in her mouth,.. from the bowl from which everyone was going to be eating the eggs.... WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK. I just... I can't with this woman. I know it's not the kid's fault... clearly she's been ALLOWED to just do whatever the f*** she wants, and she's 3 years old, so what the hell???